“The eternal God is your refuge,
and underneath are the everlasting arms.”
We all have hurtful experiences and sometimes respond emotionally. The loss of a loved one, a troubled relationship, unkind words or actions, a deep disappointment, a distressing work situation, or a persistent problem we can’t seem to overcome – these are all painful experiences. Sometimes we just need someone to vent to. We need a safe place to express ourselves without fear of condemnation. We need the comfort of God’s everlasting arms.
I had a friend in high school who offered his shoulder as a punching bag to another friend who was going through a hard time. He stood there, lowered his shoulder, and told his friend to hit him and get it all out. Thankfully his friend didn’t take him up on the offer, but it impressed me how willing my friend was to sacrifice his own body for another. It was his way of saying, “I’m here for you. I care about you.”
I think God is like this. He allows Himself to be our punching bag. He just takes it. He takes it because He loves us. He takes it because He knows we’re hurting. He opens up His great big arms of love and just holds us, loving us and comforting us in our troubles. He doesn’t reject us or turn us away.
God is big enough to handle all our grief and anger. He is patient, so patient, to allow us to vent everything. Sometimes, He doesn’t say a word. He just lets us get it all out. Sometimes what we need more than His solutions is His presence. But sometimes we need to hear from Him. He gives us that as well. He knows exactly what we need in every situation.
When I was in high school my girlfriend and I broke up. It was hard to do. After we broke up, I walked to the church parking lot where my friend Joel was. Joel is 6 foot, 8 inches tall. He gave me a hug and I started crying. My head was buried in his chest because that’s where my head comes up to when I hug him. My steady, faithful friend was there to comfort me when I was going through a hard time.
The Bible says,
“The eternal God is your refuge,
And underneath are the everlasting arms…”
God is a great big God. The entire universe and everything in it was created by His word and is sustained by His awesome power. You have probably heard someone refer to another saying, “He has a big heart.” Well, God has a big heart. The Creator of hearts has the biggest heart of them all. He has big enough arms to welcome us all in and comfort us. He is “the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles” (II Cor. 1:3-4). In turn, we are able to comfort others in their trials, with the same comfort we have received from Him.
A break-up with my girlfriend was not the end of the world. But at the time, it was a big deal to me. I needed comfort. In these last twenty years, I’ve experienced delays and disappointments much more difficult then breaking up with a girlfriend.
One time, I came to a point where my life frustrations boiled over. I let loose a complaint to the Lord. I vented to God, loudly expressing my frustration. As I vented, it seemed the Lord stood before me. I felt Him place His hand on me and comfort me. I heard Him say, “I know…I know…and it’s going to be okay.” My complaint faded as I was soothed by His presence. How can you continue to be upset with someone when they are comforting you in such a loving way?
His simple words, “I know…I know…and it’s going to be okay,” did not give me the answers to my problems. They did not guarantee a certain result. Yet, it seemed that God was saying that He knew everything I’ve gone through and everything I was going through. He knows it has been hard. He knows it’s been a struggle. But it’s going to be okay. It’s going to be okay.
We don’t always need answers. And God doesn’t always explain things to us. But He does give us His comforting presence. We are soothed and our joy is restored in His presence.
For my son Joseph, it’s a big deal when he’s hungry. He cries. Even though my wife has never denied him milk, he still cries. He needs the comfort of mommy’s breast. When he’s tired, he needs the comfort of papa’s arms. Sometimes he cries and I find myself saying, “It’s okay, it’s okay, you’re going to be okay.” He also doesn’t like being swaddled because he can’t move his arms. He fusses. He doesn’t understand that it’s good for him. He doesn’t see it, but we know what is best for him. When he’s tired, he falls asleep best when I hold him in my arms and soothe him with my voice. For him, my presence means comfort and security.
I’ve noticed that I hold Joseph in my left arm. I’ve done this since he was born without even thinking. I’m right-handed, so my right arm is my stronger arm. But when I hold him in my left arm, I am holding him close to my heart. That’s how God holds us, close to His heart.
The second part of Deuteronomy 33:27 says,
“He will thrust out the enemy from before you,
And will say, ‘Destroy!’”
My left arm gives Joseph comfort, but my strong right arm is there to protect him. Likewise, God holds us close to His heart, tenderly and carefully. His right arm is present to push away any enemies that may come against us. He is both comforter and protector.
Isaiah 40:11 says,
“He tends his flock like a shepherd:
He gathers the lambs in his arms
and carries them close to his heart;
he gently leads those that have young.”
My wife was drawn to this Scripture when we had a miscarriage. During that time, we needed God’s comfort, both His words of comfort and His presence.
We find comfort in His words and in His voice that soothes and reassures. We also find comfort in His presence, in His everlasting arms. He has a big heart to receive us and hold us. Until Jesus returns and restores all things, we turn to God and His outstretched, everlasting arms. We draw near to Him as He holds us close to His chest.