Prioritizing Joy

JoyIn my marriage, not much makes me feel better than making my wife laugh. When I say or do something that fills her with overflowing laughter, I feel a sense of satisfaction. Making her happy makes me feel like I am doing something right.

I try to bring fun and laughter to my home. Life is too short to be serious all the time. There are many problems in the world, but Jesus promises joy for his disciples (see John 15:11, John 16:16-24, John 10:10).

This weekend we took our son to the Emergency Room because he got an infection on his body. Thank God, it wasn’t a big deal and should clear up after a few days. That’s life. Still, we found plenty of time to enjoy time together as a family. I made jokes while we watched a Hallmark movie. We acted goofy with our little boy, enjoying his smile. On Sunday, we went to church and then drove about 45 minutes to our favorite Mexican restaurant and ate street tacos.

God wants us to enjoy the life He has given us. He wants to inject some joy into our family life and marriages. Ecclesiastes 9:9 (AMP) says, “Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given you under the sun…” Life is short, it passes by quickly. I just turned 40 and I’m determined to live out my days with righteousness and integrity, serving the Lord with all my heart, and enjoying the time God has given me.

Proverbs 13:7 (NKJV) says, “There is one who makes himself rich, yet has nothing; And one who makes himself poor, yet has great riches.” Ecclesiastes 9:4 (NKJV) says, “a living dog is better than a dead lion.” You may not feel like you have much, but I encourage you to make the most of what you have, enjoy who you are with and make the most of the time God has given you.

In this article by Ken Blount, Prioritizing Joy In Your Marriage, he offers some practical suggestions for injecting laughter into your daily life. He says, “Good humor stimulates wit and laughter, and it actually creates closeness and intimacy between people, while hurtful humor creates pain and emotional distance.” Use your humor to build up, not to tear down. Enjoy your spouse and your children. Enjoy your friends and the people around you. Enjoy loving God. Enjoy the beauty of His creation. Enjoy life! Prioritize joy.

For Reflection: What are some things you do to inject laughter into your marriage? Into your home? Into your daily life?

“A merry heart does good, like medicine,
But a broken spirit dries the bones.”
-Proverbs 17:22 (NKJV)